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The Best Book Ever for Beginning Writers

August 20, 2018 by Mickey Miller

I did a live feed today on Facebook where I talked about the best book for beginning writers.

If you are an aspiring creative, you’ll love this feed where I also talk about some of the psychological blocks writers and other artists have to overcome.

 

Here is a link the the Artist’s Way on Amazon:

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Writer's Life, Writing Tips Tagged With: Best Book for Beginning Authors, The Writer's Way

How Morning Pages Will Help You Conquer Writer’s Block

May 22, 2018 by Mickey Miller

Just about every writer, at some point in their career, deals with the dreaded condition commonly known as “Writer’s Block.”

Since I published my first book a few days before my thirtieth birthday in 2016, I have certainly gone through periods of creative abundance and drought. In my periods of extreme productivity, it seemed like I couldn’t hit the keyboard fast enough to get all the words out. There were also days where it was like wringing a dry washcloth to get a single drop of water out.

What is the difference between those productive periods and not-so-productive periods?

In other words, what is the cure for writer’s block? Is there even a ‘cure’ for writer’s block?

I’m going to get to that. But first, I think it’s important to dig a little deeper into what writer’s block is and where it comes from.

Here’s a quote from one of my favorite authors on writer’s block:

Most of the time, when we are blocked in an area of our life, it is because we feel safer that way.

-Julia, Cameron, The Artist’s Way

To me, this makes perfect sense. Most often, my inability to get words down on the page is due to some root fear or unaddressed feeling about myself and my own writing. It’s not that I’m blocked from writing, or that I lack ideas. Instead, it’s usually because of my own negative beliefs. Here’s a smattering of some of my own negative beliefs that have a tendency to crowd into my head:

-These thoughts I’m putting down are downright dirty, and I’m definitely going to hell, if there is a hell

-You’re weird, Mickey, and everyone will think that about you after you finish writing this book. Why do you enjoy writing romance? It’s a female genre.

-I’ll write bad work, not know it, and look like a fool

-My ideas aren’t good

-If I haven’t become a widely successful author yet, I’m not going to be one any time soon

Even as I read this list back to myself, I can tell many of the points are fairly irrational. Going to hell? Really? I don’t believe in hell. But, I was raised Catholic, so the idea of a fire and brimstone punishment still has the ability to creep into my writing and give me writer’s block. It’s actually a little creepy, isn’t it? But it’s true. Maybe you’ve had similar irrational thoughts.

Maybe some of what I’ve written down could be true, like the fact that romance is a mostly female genre. But if I’ve decided that I enjoy writing romance, that too is an irrational belief since I’m worried about how people are judging me.

I write this personal list of negative beliefs down to demonstrate that whatever is blocking you from writing doesn’t have to be rational. In fact, your writer’s block is likely made up of irrational negative beliefs that are deeply embedded within you. To steal a phrase from David Foster Wallace, these beliefs are like a fish in water. They’re all around you even if you don’t notice them.

Julia Cameron agrees. Here is a little more of her analysis of blocked creatives:

Negative Beliefs are exactly that: beliefs, not facts. Artists need not be drunk, crazy, broke, alone–or any of a number of our culture’s negative beliefs about them.

So how does one find these negative beliefs? You must explore and excavate them like a fish who explores the water. And the best tool for doing this is The Morning Pages.

The morning pages are such a simple tool, they are almost deceiving in their simplicity. But don’t be fooled. They are not to be underestimated.

How to do the Morning Pages and Beat Writer’s Block

  1. Set your alarm clock a half hour earlier. If a half hour is too intimidating, do fifteen minutes. And if that doesn’t work. Ten. I started out with five minutes. You must pick an amount of time that you can repeat daily.
  2. Write three pages in a notebook, longhand, about anything that comes to mind. If you can’t write three, write two. If not two, then one. The key is to start with something.
  3. The content you write DOES NOT MATTER. You want to focus on writing whatever comes to mind. From experience I can tell you that you might often right down stuff that seems ‘frivolous’ to you. Lean into this feeling. It’s normal. You’re not showing this writing to anyone. It is for you and you alone.
  4. Do this consistently, at least 5+ days per week. This is key. Essentially what this activity does is build your writing ‘muscle’ while creating a link between your subconscious and what you are writing.

This is a basic rundown. The morning pages are the closest thing to “magic” that exists when it comes to beating writer’s block. I still start almost every single day with writing morning pages and coffee. It’s a soothing form of mediation, and I’ve come to crave it. It settles me. Sometimes the morning pages seem whiny and trite. Other times, I’ll be writing about something insignificant when all of the sudden some big realization will set in. In any case, it clears away the noise of my mind to go and write whatever I need to write for the day.

If you would like to learn more about the morning pages and how to conquer writer’s block, I highly recommend picking up a copy of Julia Cameron’s book The Artist’s Way: A Spiritual Path to Creativity.

I am not exaggerating when I say I would not be a full time writer if I hadn’t read this book and followed through with the exercises, the most important of which are the morning pages. I consider my own mother a blocked creative, and I’ve actually bought The Artist’s Way book + journal combo for her as a summer gift. Of course, you don’t really need the ‘official’ journal. You can write in any old notebook you have laying around and start the morning pages right now. But I am a huge fan of the quotes that come in the official journal, like:

Because art is born in expansion, in a belief in sufficient supply, it is critical that we pamper ourselves for the sense of abundance it brings us.

It is quite possible, to be both an artist and romantically fulfilled. It is quite possible to be an artist and financially successful.

Think of the mind as a room. In that room we keep all of our usual ideas about life. The room has a door. That door is ever so slightly ajar, and outside we can see a great deal of dazzling light.

– All quotes from Julia Cameron’s Writing Journal.

I will admit that after I filled up the first official writing journal in a little over twelve weeks, I become obsessed with extra large Moleskin notebooks which are the only journal I use now. I highly recommend them. There is just something special about moleskins. I use the unlined version (you know, because creatives can’t stay between the lines and all that). They are a tad on the pricey side for a simple notebook, and I’m sure there are less expensive options out there as well. What can I say, I have an addictive writing habit.

I’m also going to give away a copy of both books this week to one lucky person in my Facebook Group, Mickey’s Writing Mill. All you have to do is comment on the post about what you think is your biggest negative self-belief and where you think it comes from, and share this blog post somewhere.

Please also let me know what you think about this behind-the-scenes post. I’ve never written one quite like this, but judging from the questions I’ve been getting in the Facebook group I felt it would be useful.

If you’ve ever thought about writing seriously, I’ll leave you with this quote from a living writing legend. He didn’t sell his first screenplay until he was in his thirties, and he wrote it while still working full time as a lawyer.

Of the people 100 people I’ve given [the book] to, maybe ten of them have actually opened the book and done the exercises. Of those ten, seven have had books, movies, TV shows, and made out successful.

-Brian Koppelman, writer of such screenplays as Rounders and Billions

Writing is a form of magic. You are creating something (your own story with unique characters) where there once was nothing.

I wish you the best of luck on your writing journey and your morning pages.

Filed Under: Book Reviews, Writer's Life, Writing Tips Tagged With: How to Beat Writer's Block, The Artist's Way, The Artist's Way Book Review

Why I quit my job to write full time (and why it’s a bad idea)

December 31, 2017 by Mickey Miller

On December 29th, 2017, I worked my last day in the office at my day job as a sales rep at one of the biggest technology companies in the U.S.

As I took the elevator down and out of the skyscraper yesterday, a pang of nervousness nipped at me. Questions that I hadn’t thought about suddenly arose in my mind:

Why are you quitting a stable job right as you’re about to get a promotion?

What will you do for a 401k and benefits?

Why don’t you work just a little bit longer?

I pushed those thoughts out of my mind as I left the building for the last time, because in my heart of hearts, my head just wasn’t in the game of selling technology any more. I was very fortunate to have the job, don’t get me wrong.

But something hit me one day in December, and I realized every day I spent at the job was one more day less I would be writing full time–which has been my goal for a long time and is my goal to do forever. I plan on writing until I’m 90 or whenever my fingers stop working or people don’t want to read my crazy shit any more.

And I’m so damn happy about that.

For the last three years, this has been my office:

Two full winters passed sitting at that cubicle…I wouldn’t even see the sun during the afternoon, since as you can see the wall blocks it.

I liked my job, but the environment was a little bit depressing and drab, to be honest. Not like I won’t be using a computer when I write my books, but at least I’ll be able to use my imagination.

After writing eight books this year, including an Amazon bestselling romantic comedy and a few others that didn’t do so bad, this seemed like the perfect time to make the jump.

And then, of course, I realized that December is the month that no one reads. And I didn’t have a release coming out until the end of the month.  I double checked my sales, and wondered, how the hell am I going to live off that? I’m going to be eating ramen for the rest of my life.

I even thought about telling my boss I wanted to reverse my two weeks and stay a little longer.

But in the end I didn’t really care. As corny as it is, I’m doing what I love which is writing books and writing romances.

But still, I wouldn’t recommend quitting to write–unless you are making many times what your day job is.

Or unless you’re a crazy man like me.

Come with me as I chronicle the journey.

This year could go down in flames, but hey, at least I can say I went for it.

I’ll be posting a lot more on the blog this year about writing, my books, and the mindset it takes to make it as an entrepreneurial spirit in this world. And sure maybe delving into the question I get asked a lot which is why would a guy write romance?

Here’s to a hellavu ride in 2018!

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Filed Under: Writer's Life, Writing Tips Tagged With: Full Time Romance Author, How to quit your job to become a romance author, Romance Writing

On Writing: How to Become a Writer

November 24, 2017 by Mickey Miller

What makes a person a “writer?”

I’m going to tell you, but first, I want to tell you a quick little anecdote.

Before I started writing romance, I had a tough time believing I could ever be a “writer.” For years, I told myself I didn’t have ‘it.’ I asked myself ‘How can I become a writer?’ And I responded, too. ‘Darn, all of the writing jobs are so hard to get!’

Even now, after having published eight books in a year, I find myself overthinking my writing process quite often.  I’ll ask myself questions, like:

“Is that prose perfect?”

“Is there a better way to say this phrase?”

“Am I being too wordy?”

Sometimes, I am harder on myself. I’ll think damn this just sucks. It’s not good writing.

But I keep in mind one thought, above all others, that separates a writer from a non-writer. And it has nothing to do with perfection.

Writers Write.

Every. Damn. Day. Sometimes you write well. Sometimes you feel like a fourth grader could have written a better chapter.

Football players play football. Every. Day.

Sometimes they win, sometimes they get railroaded.

So at what point can you call yourself a writer?

In my opinion, it’s when you are writing 5-6 days per week. Even if it’s just 5 minutes per day.  Let the words flow, and let it seep into your subconscious.

I shoot for 1,000 words per day minimum. I know some authors who write a whole lot more.

So you want to be a writer?

Just write the words every day. And then wait about a year. Sounds simple, right?

Happy Writing,

Mickey

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How to Write the First Line of Your Story

September 6, 2017 by Mickey Miller

“The hardest part of running is the first step out the door.”

– some running guru

“The hardest part of writing is the first decisive keystroke.”

-Mickey Miller

I don’t plan on doing much ‘author-splaining’ in this blog. Every author finds what works for them, and what works for one doesn’t work for another. I merely plan to use this as a means for you to see the man behind the madness, so to speak. Second, it’s just a way for me to work through my thought process. I’m not Stephen King–and I fully admit that. I’m not trying to be, either.

So take everything with a grain of salt. But it’s fun to go behind the scenes, right? Let’s have some fun with this next analogy.

Writing and physical activity may seem to be on totally different spectrums, but I would argue they are not. In fact, the physical and the mental have a stronger connection then many think, in my humble opinion.

A part of writing at that often gets called over analyzed is ‘what should the first line of the book be?’

Or maybe it’s just me that does the over analyzing. However, in a world where there are so many options for books, the cover and the first line are key for giving the reader the best possible experience. And it makes sense. Hey, if you can’t write a good first line, why would someone think you’d be able to write a good book?

All this being said, I don’t call myself an ‘expert of the first line’ by any means. But here’s the key to the very first line of the book:

Rule 1 of writing: You can always rewrite it.

I know, it’s a little cliche, but it’s true. The first lines that I write are rarely the lines I end up using.

Here are some sample first lines from books that I’ve written

Playing Dirty: 

My Boss was a world class dick.

My analysis: Not a horrible first line. Already, we know the main character (Andrea) is an employee and has a boss, so it conveys some meaning. However, it doesn’t give the reader a clue about the romance to come.

The Casanova Experience:

“Last call, flight two-zero-two, direct from Chicago to Barcelona.”

I’m a fan of this line because it conveys to the reader one of the main settings of the stories, Barcelona. However, it doesn’t pack a lot of emotional punch.

Professor with Benefits

Never sleep with a student. Shit, I could have told you that. I went to Harvard. I don’t need to go to a damn seminar to understand it’s a bad idea to mix with the ones you’re teaching.

I love this first line/sequence. The main character, Professor Hanks, is expressing what is essentially the administration’s moral policy which he’ll go on to (spoiler!) break when he hooks up with a student. Gotta love when characters are proved wrong.

Mechanic with Benefits

Ever have one of those days where it feels like the universe is messing with you?

Not horrible. The female MC (Haley) is going through a very tough time when our story starts, and the final straw is when her car breaks down in the middle of nowhere. I think we’ve all had one of those days.

Now let’s take a look at one more. This one is a WIP (work in progress). I may or may not keep this line for the final draft of the story.

Boss with Benefits

I gaze out the window of the tallest building in Blackwell, hands on my hips as I rapidly become more irate with my talent recruiter.

These are my first lines.

For me, it’s a lot less of a science, and more of a gut feeling of “what would this character be thinking/saying/doing when inserted into their situation.

If you’re an author, how do you come up with a first line?

And for all the readers out there, are there any famous first lines of books that stick out to you?

And as a last thought, I find when the worst part about obsessing over the first line is I’m not working on the second. Once you get rolling, the last thing you’ll be worried about is the very first line. Going back to that first quote about how writing is like running–often the toughest part

Mickey Miller is a member of RWA, avid reader and romance author. You can catch his books on Amazon here. 

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